The Selfish Lover

Someone who is selfish when they love an another person will try to retain or keep them in any possible way they can. They do not heed that expression of "when you love something set it free, if it was yours it will come back to you, if not it was not meant to be." They will use methods of guilt, emotional blackmail and other varieties of threats to keep something in their lives that was never theirs to begin with.