Most Christians do not discuss their sex lives openly because it is not proper conduct to God. However I feel many are misleading others to believe we do not live erotic sex lives, or ones filled with extreme passion or desire. This would be very inaccurate, and to be quite honest is scaring away possibilities to the Cross of Christ. People believing your erotic lifestyle must cease once you come to Jesus, might not ever want to come to the cross.
God wants us to only share sexual experiences with one partner, one man and one woman;
unless you have been called to live like some special people in the bible do with more then one wife. More then one wife is allowed in certain situations which will be discussed on other post.
Desires in the bedroom should not be leading to homosexuality, pain, or humiliation but should be leading both to be left feeling satisfied and not seeking passions with another without crossing over to defy God with adding another partner or causing pain to another in any way, shape or form.
In order to decide what is the most appropriate conduct for a healthy sex life without defying the Lord is to look at the bigger picture. I find when I glance at the larger picture, I have more insight of what God allows as healthy sexuality.
A verse in scripture mentions about masturbation and spilling seed, which many atheists seem to latch on too like a bad cold. In certain situations when a man is travelling, or someone is ill, or not at home, this seems to be the only option left other then ADULTERY. I said man because of spilling seed in this verse. In those cases masturbating is a better alternative then straying from your partner. God does not want your desires so out of control, that you are taking your desires to someone else.
In my home we use a variety of toys, lingerie, costumes and masturbation is most certainly allowed. Masturbation curves desires to stray outside your home to find it in the arms of someone else. Sexual positions are not any different in our Christian home, as they are in any other home of an unbeliever.
I simply shared this information so you would know that someone like myself with very powerful gifts of God as some can see, do lead a very healthy, sexy and erotic lifestyle with the one partner I have at home.
I am hoping this post will help educate either those confused on sexuality in their Christian homes, or if someone is an unbeliever wondering if "Christians are prudes", or what occurs in our homes.
