Christian Erotic Sex Part II

Healthy sexuality within a Christian partnership can be obtained without defying the Lord. Browsing through a variety of websites and social media outlets like Twitter, many are uneducated or have no knowledge about healthy sexuality that is still erotic between a Christian man and woman. The partnership God allows is one man and one woman, unless of course you have been called to lead a lifestyle described in the bible of more then one wife. Those situations do not occur often, and only certain individuals are called to such a lifestyle.

What sexuality is condemned by GOD?

1) Pornography is not allowed unless it is your spouse.

2) Pornographic or nude pictures; is not allowed unless it is your spouse.

3) Promoting sexual conduct not of God and leading others to perform them is condemned by God. A fine example of this conduct is sexual accounts promoting porn and pictures, and falsely teaching others claiming one is a doctor. It is sexual deviance to claim one is a doctor or a counselor and gaining trust deceitfully.

4) Homosexuality of any nature or causing others pain or humiliation in any type of way is not allowed by God.

5) Multiple partners or adding partners to your existing relationship.

6)  Using alcohol or street drugs to enhance the effect of sex.

What Sexuality is allowed by GOD?

1)      Lingerie, costumes and toys that are not causing one pain or humiliation.

2)      All sexual positions that are not causing one pain, discomfort or feeling humiliated by participating with them.

3)      Oral sex

4)      Masturbating to avoid multiple partners, uncontrollable lust or desires or even adultery in some cases.

5)      Pornographic videos, pictures, phone sex, or live video sex between a partnership of one man and one woman.

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Is anal sex allowed by GOD?

Anal sex can be a dangerous practice for your health if not done properly such as not entering the vagina after being in the anus or washing the area and penis before other activities. Anal sex is also linked to anal cancer.

My advice for anal sex is to follow health precautions, and limit the practice of it to an occasional sexual experience for fear of anal cancer.

I am not a married woman, I live common law. However my common law husband wants to marry me. We are in love, and we are Christian. We practice a very healthy and erotic sex life, and it has not interrupted prophetic giftings.

May God bless you to lead sexually erotic lifestyles within a Christian partnership of one man and one woman.

Masturbation VS Desiring the Wrong Choices

The bible has one verse of spilling seed and not to masturbate. When you have Holy Spirit and walking with GOD, you need to view things as a whole. The entire picture needs to be viewed, not only bits and pieces.

Is It Wrong to Masturbate?

In some cases men and women are single, recently divorced or still searching for someone appropriate. In moments of weakness, loneliness or what it is called lust one might migrate to an unappropriate choice. The variety of unappropriate choices should be determined by Gods word, or determined by one of his messangers or spoke persons. Gods word determines that no one should burn with lust. In these cases of masturbation vs unappropriate choices or decisions, then masturbation would be GODS will.

Why Masturbate instead of a partner?

God does not desire our partners to not reflect the word of God for one, or living an unhealthy lifestyle. Unhealthy has a variety of implications such as drug abuse, or an unhealthy spirit. It is not realistic to believe that a man or woman will not burn with desire or lust because they are single and still searching for an appropriate or worthy partner. God looks at this in a larger format. The choice would be to masturbate your desires instead of fullfilling them with wrong partner choices.

May God bless your choices of worthy partnerships, and to ease your consciousness that self satisfaction is a wiser decision then unappropriate partners or sexual immorality with many.

Closer to God

Warning: Fowl language in the video

Why am I discussing this video?

It has spiritual connections to the bible which I am about to explain.

What is this video implying?

In many cases men who are unbelievers or beginning some sort of personal changes, find themselves drawn to whom God calls the proverbs 31 woman. It is not only scriptural it happens very often. They catch a reflection of God in her. This can also occur with women desiring men of God.

Does this video offend me?

Not in the least. I enjoy this particular song by Nine Inch Nails and listen to it often. God looks at the heart of man as the bible clearly tells us. This man in this video sees God in this woman. I just do not tweet the song out because some might take it the wrong way due to the language. However the man singing the song is enduring some sort of personal changes with words such as "help me". It is what I call the dark night of the soul. The dark night of the soul is a reflection of your own sins before the big change of becoming Christian occurs. Notice he says you can not help me with my absence of faith? However at the same time is claiming that she brings him closer to God.

Dark Night of the Soul Material to Read

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The Dark Night of the Soul is the Gift of Illumination in Higher Consciousness

May God bless you for your own illumination and endurance through your own dark night of the soul experience.

Christian Erotic Sex, Desires VS Adultery

Most Christians do not discuss their sex lives openly because it is not proper conduct to God. However I feel many are misleading others to believe we do not live erotic sex lives, or ones filled with extreme passion or desire. This would be very inaccurate, and to be quite honest is scaring away possibilities to the Cross of Christ. People believing your erotic lifestyle must cease once you come to Jesus, might not ever want to come to the cross.

God wants us to only share sexual experiences with one partner, one man and one woman; unless you have been called to live like some special people in the bible do with more then one wife. More then one wife is allowed in certain situations which will be discussed on other post.

Desires in the bedroom should not be leading to homosexuality, pain, or humiliation but should be leading both to be left feeling satisfied and not seeking passions with another without crossing over to defy God with adding another partner or causing pain to another in any way, shape or form.

In order to decide what is the most appropriate conduct for a healthy sex life without defying the Lord is to look at the bigger picture. I find when I glance at the larger picture, I have more insight of what God allows as healthy sexuality.

A verse in scripture mentions about masturbation and spilling seed, which many atheists seem to latch on too like a bad cold. In certain situations when a man is travelling, or someone is ill, or not at home, this seems to be the only option left other then ADULTERY. I said man because of spilling seed in this verse. In those cases masturbating is a better alternative then straying from your partner. God does not want your desires so out of control, that you are taking your desires to someone else.

In my home we use a variety of toys, lingerie, costumes and masturbation is most certainly allowed. Masturbation curves desires to stray outside your home to find it in the arms of someone else. Sexual positions are not any different in our Christian home, as they are in any other home of an unbeliever.

I simply shared this information so you would know that someone like myself with very powerful gifts of God as some can see, do lead a very healthy, sexy and erotic lifestyle with the one partner I have at home.

I am hoping this post will help educate either those confused on sexuality in their Christian homes, or if someone is an unbeliever wondering if "Christians are prudes", or what occurs in our homes.