Cyber Bully Techniques and Tactics

What is a Cyber Bully?

A cyber bully is a bully online no different then in a school yard but not limited to activities done by children. Adults on the internet can be a cyber bully too.

What are the signs of a Cyber bully?

• Sending cruel, vicious and sometimes threatening messages,Creating web sites that contain stories, cartoons, pictures and jokes ridiculing others  

On twitter; profiles have been made which is a website but they are fake profiles of real individuals with their real picture in the corner of the profile and ridicule the real person the profile is making fun of.

•  Posting pictures of classmates online with intent to embarrass them, 

• Breaking into an e-mail account and sending vicious or embarrassing material to others,  

•  Engaging in IM (instant messaging) to trick another person into revealing sensitive or personal information and forwarding that information to others 

• Taking a picture of a person using a digital phone camera and sending that picture electronically to others without consent.

 These signs are on the simcoe county school board site just click here.

I have had several of these activities done including tricking and engaging for sensitive information in regards to my relationship with my husband so they could let others know in an abusive manner. I have had pictures put up to embarrass me as well. I also receive many cruel and vicious messages sent to me on twitter and on my blog. They are cyber bullies.

I have also discovered they move in herds or packs of people. They tend to hover with their own kind. Now I will be placing up links to profiles on twitter that were generated to make fun of myself and another man online. They are fake accounts of me and a man that send cruel and vicious messages with a very large following on these accounts. I strongly urge you to view the follow list of these accounts and to block or remove them from your following. They support cyber bullying and have no issues with this form of abuse online.

When It Is Appropriate to Accuse of Neglect or Abuse

When deciding if it is appropriate to accuse someone of neglect or abuse of children you  need to follow guidelines that are appropriate and not rely on guessing someones life.

The Guidelines

1) Friendship and Knowledge

A close friendship and knowledge is required of knowing what is happening in the persons home. Judging without this knowledge can lead to many issues and many problems. Most decent parents do not discuss on the internet when children leave the house, where they are going or who is visiting the house. Privacy is important on the internet in regards to safety for your family. 

Friendship and love should lead an individual to be concerned for the offspring of the children involved. If you love someone and love their offspring because you love the parent and are concerned of neglect, that is an entirely different matter and should be discussed privately. Accusing someone without asking questions such as why the neglect could be happening is not appropriate; such as life issues, being unhappy, seeking something they are missing, disease or illness, or something else. Ask appropriate questions based on your love and friendship of the individual and the children involved.

2) Proof

You need proof they are abusing their children, basing a judgment by what you are viewing from people you do not know or have a relationship with is not the proper method. As I mentioned up above, the child or children might not be home and out with friends of parents, people from the church, in a daycare, napping or doing other activities. 


Contacting  Childrens Aid or Childrens services or even discussing that option needs to be your last resort, along with the proof without a shadow of a doubt that neglect or abuse is happening. Many risks are involved when a child is removed from the home and placed in foster care. You simply google Foster Care Risks, and you can obtain many articles. Hospital visits increase in foster care.  

Pushing Ones Limits Of The Soul

Why does man push one to their limits of experiencing pain, grief and anger when they know this will be the result of these activities? They will pursue your heart, mind and soul relentlessly in a variety of methods, until they affect your health to the point where a doctor needs to be seen.

These individuals feel no sympathy or empathy nor any concern for the people they hurt constantly. Instead of letting them go entirely, they will find methods of deceit to contact them, speak to them, or keeping themselves in that persons life without that persons approval?

What can be done to stop this form of pain?

I have struggled with the answer to this for a few months now. I have not yet found the answer other then relying on prayer, scriptures and God to cease these activities that are causing turmoil in ones life and upsetting natural balance of soul.

My suggestion is to keep yourselves as busy as possible to help curb the thoughts and transgression being brought upon your person. I throw myself into creative pursuits, reading, prayer and prophecy to help me combat these attacks on my privacy to heal or privacy to move on from unworthy soul contacts.

Will one heal from these individuals?

I am bound to believe one will eventually heal from this unnatural form of mild abuse. It is a form of abuse but not highly recognized or spoken about in wide circles. Find comfort and solace with the Lord in prayer.

May God bless you today to take care of another person enduring these trials or hardships inflicted on a gentle heart, mind and spirit.